(Note: this post is a follow up from yesterday's post.)
Starts with three important questions. With whatever area you're trying to get successful at, then, ask yourself:
Take, for example, personal finance. With personal finance, there are so many sub-skills you can learn, but the basic ones are:
We can then reorder the sequence of sub-skills from easiest to hardest:
Notice here that I haven't mentioned anything about the end-result (e.g. "$1,000,000 in investments," "no credit card debt," etc.).
Sure, these might be good challenges to overcome on the road to successful personal finance, but on their own, they do not teach you how to be successful in that area. It's only through focusing on developing each sub-skill that you will have control over the results.